Accord: See Each Other Clearly

Accord is for two people who need to talk about hard things and keep ending up in the same fight. It was built for partners. It works just as well for co-parents raising a child from separate homes, who no longer choose each other but both choose the child. You pick which one you are when you start. The Looking Glass You write what is on your mind, in your own words. Accord translates it: everything you meant stays in, the parts that would make the other person defensive come out. You see the translation before anything is sent, and you can edit it, soften it, or send your own words as they are. The Emotional Airlock When a message arrives, you get a private space to react honestly first. Say what you really think. Nobody sees it. Then Accord helps you find the concern underneath and write a response that is about the problem, not the history. The Vault Your raw reactions are stored…