Daily Responsibility

Most household arguments are two arguments wearing one coat. One is about work: who cooked, who cleaned, who did the school run. The other is about money: who paid for the groceries, the vet, the tyres. Mixed together, neither can be settled: "I paid for dinner" is not an answer to "I cooked every night this week." Daily Responsibility keeps them apart. Every period gives you two separate splits, each adding up to 100%: one for effort, one for money. Maya did 55% of the work. Daniel paid 58% of it. Both are true, neither cancelling the other out. YOUR GROUP PRICES ITS OWN CHORES Cooking a meal might be worth 8 points, taking the rubbish out 2. The numbers arrive as a starting point and then you argue about them; that negotiation is the feature, not a step to get past. A household that has agreed a bedtime routine is worth more than vacuuming has already had the useful conversation.…