Ickity

You are not crazy. You are not overreacting. What happened to you was real. When you are dealing with a toxic partner, a manipulative family member, or a bad friend, the hardest thing to hold onto is your own memory. Conversations get twisted. Words get flipped on you. Arguments end with you apologizing for things you didn’t even do. Over time, the constant second-guessing wears you down until you don't even trust your own gut anymore. Then comes the love-bombing, the sweet apologies, or the quiet guilt that makes you think: "Maybe it wasn’t that bad. Maybe I’m the problem." Some people call it "toxic amnesia"—and it is the exact trap that keeps you stuck. Ickity is your reality anchor. Ickity is not a polite daily diary where you simply write about your feelings. In Ickity your feelings become revelations, your voice becomes your anchor, and your reality starts to become grounded in…