Commonly: Shared Load

Commonly is for two people who share a home. Each of you answers a short Load Check on your own phone, sealed until you both finish. Then you see where your views differ, and every Sunday you thank each other for specific things. A FEW QUESTIONS, NO RIGHT ANSWERS For each of eight areas, say who carries more, from noticing to doing. About five minutes. Remembering the dentist counts, not just going. SEALED UNTIL YOU BOTH FINISH Nobody sees anything until you both finish. There is no way to peek, and nothing to argue about halfway through. Share cards hide names by default. SEE WHERE YOUR VIEWS DIFFER, TOGETHER Both views side by side, the gap in points, and the areas where it shows most. Areas are compared. People never are. SUNDAY SYNC About ten minutes on Sunday: one thank-you per thing each of you carried, and next week agreed by you both. WHAT’S INSIDE • Today: the one thing to do…